My Pop Culture World

My pop culture world, that i wish to be is by a large amount, not going to happen. Today, we have rap and pop songs that only talk about doing stuff with people. Our musical society is built on songs that exploit women, the only thing that i don't get is why they are the popular songs. Who usually listens too and buys most of the songs that exploit women? The teen aged girls do. So by doing that, wouldn't it be ok to do and say all of the things in all of the songs they listen to? Most songs are about meeting a girl at a club and __________________her. So wouldn't it be ok for the guys to do those things that the rap guys sing about? I don't get that at all. You could call a girl a really not mean name, they would flip out. and yet in the music they listen to, the rappers call them far worse things than that. It just doesn't make sense, just because they are famous, they get to tell girls what to do, when to do it and how to do it? I think it is just stupid. So, any girls that actually take time to read this, why do u listen to that kind of music and allow yourself not to be that kind of person?